Telling an Inconvenient Truth at the Water Cooler

An attempt to interject a sexist, if not misogynistic, conversation gets derailed when her male colleagues resort to feigning emotional incompetence, gaslighting and infantilizing the issue.

People at my workplace have a strange obsession with water coolers.

They would gather their friends, prepare their empty water bottles and seek out the most pristine dispenser around. After years of surveying, they reached a consensus: the water cooler right behind my desk topped the rest.

The unique plac

Filming TikToks Next to Your Dying Mom: The Fascinating World of Indonesian TV

I was discouraged from watching local TV as a child.

It was my babysitter who eventually let me sneak a peek into the unruly world of Indonesian soap operas (sinetron), talent competitions and infotainment shows. It’s unlike any other form of entertainment I’ve encountered: a wacky land where gaffes and corny jokes are bountiful, and the editors have the time of their lives inserting comical background noises during inappropriate moments.

Growing up, I’d looked down on this industry. I didn’t,